Love More, Fear Less

Thought of the day

Fear Hoards, Love Recycles

Fear Hoards, Love Recycles

    Fear is a classic hoarder Fear holds onto all of our negative experiences and associations, like a hoarder stores junk. It could be emotional junk. It could a friendship or relationship that no longer serves us. It could be a grudge, or resentment, […]

Fear eats mediocrity for breakfast

Fear eats mediocrity for breakfast

Fear is content with the easy route, the lazy option, the comfort of the familiar. Fear likes to settle. When fear has its way, you’ll be eating a bowl of mediocrity every morning. Love aims higher, because it knows its limitless potential. Love is fierce, […]

Feeling vs Fearing

Feeling vs Fearing

Fear vs LoveĀ  What does that mean? Does choosing love mean that you ignore your fear, or repress it, or try to beat it by thinking positive? No way. It doesn’t. Positive thinking is null and void if that means burying your head in the […]

Love is an anchor

Love is an anchor

  Imagine that you’re a rowing boat in the marina, without an anchor or rope. Now imagine a storm approaching. The wind picks up, and torrential rain causes waves to swell. You find yourself at the mercy of unpredictable weather; you sustain injury, get thrown […]

The grey area of we, in happy

The grey area of we, in happy

  Once upon a time Once upon a time, in a relationship far far away, the object of my affection asked me why I loved him. To which I replied (without thinking), because you make me happy. And immediately after saying that, I scolded myself […]

Fear is a prison

Fear is a prison

Fear of letting go I drove past a prison a few weeks ago, and it got me thinking about metaphorical prisons relating to the heart and to love. When it comes to the end of a relationship, be that romantic or plutonic, Fear of letting […]

There are no wrong turns

There are no wrong turns

There are no wrong turns, says Love I have been using my GPS a lot recently, and it struck me while I was driving today that there are no wrong turns in life. Just like a GPS re-routes you when you take a wrong turn, […]